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colin-vian:

  Augustus Leopold Egg, The Travelling Companions, 1862, Birmingham Museum and Art Gallery, Birmingham, oil on canvas, 65,3 × 78,7 cm

colin-vian:

  Augustus Leopold Egg, The Travelling Companions, 1862, Birmingham Museum and Art Gallery, Birmingham, oil on canvas, 65,3 × 78,7 cm

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I dunno I just feel like I should have had spiritual awakenings lacy throwpillows better-looking plants several tragic breakups leading to emotional maturity better acceptance of my mother’s tragedy more self awareness a cuter bedroom a bicycle with both tires inflated a crush on someone other than this person who I pushed away the whole time we were together a college degree a decision about motherhood by now

psyducked:

may the merciful lord on high hear our prayers and DELIVER

psyducked:

may the merciful lord on high hear our prayers and DELIVER

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all but 4

x Braced yourself and constricted your energies to avoid invasion from another person’s words or actions 
x Thought “You can’t tell me what to do and I don’t have to listen” when a parent or teacher corrected you 
_____ Felt overly proud at being rational and logical at the expense of being intuitive and experiencing feelings 
x Needed be seen as tough, powerful and strong 
x Decided that your ideas were better than others so shut their opinions off 
x Became angry when you expected others to see things your way and agree with you and they didn’t 
Felt embarrassed about admitting and saying”I don’t know.” and “I was wrong.”to yourself and others 
x Felt threatened when you feared you were wrong 
x Judged others harshly when they disagreed with you 
x Became overwhelmed when information presented was too much to process 
x Felt threatened when new ideas came from someone else 
x Feared hearing about new information that threatened your beliefs 
x Feared letting go of control of a task to someone else 
x Devalued the sensitivity and feelings of others 
x Felt uncomfortable with your expressing sensitive feelings 
x Felt discomfort about having bad feelings 
_____ Felt entitled in doing what you had to do to get others to go along with you 
_____ Decided that someone who disagreed with you should “just get over it”
x Used smiling and charm insincerely to get win another person to your point of view 
x Started blaming and putting the other person down to settle the argument 
x Feared the anxiety and feeling fragmented when there was disagreement 
x Felt satisfied and pleased because you manipulated someone to get your way 
x Overrode the boundaries that someone else was trying to set 
x Refused to see the problem from the other person’s perspective 
x Responded with sarcasm instead of trying to solve the problem 
_____ Decided that the issue didn’t affect you and assumed it did not affect others 
x Argued your point of view in thoughts or words and refused to hear the alternate argument 
x Badgered and intimidated someone to shut him down 
x Became agitated and stubbornly attached when your ideas were attacked 
x Became irritated at an assumption of the other person and stopped listening 
x Minimized the importance of a personal problem you were being confronted with 
x Refuse to deal with a problem because you thought it was temporary 
x Refused to ask for help on a hard problem and decided you needed to do it all yourself 
Refused to ask for help on a task because you were embarrassed 
Lied and falsified data to convince people you were right 

spookingofskelesackia:

such-heights:

babiesareyum:

“A member of the Scottish National Antarctic Expedition plays the bagpipe for an indifferent penguin, 1904.”

#the greatest caption in the history of the world

gpoy

spookingofskelesackia:

such-heights:

babiesareyum:

“A member of the Scottish National Antarctic Expedition plays the bagpipe for an indifferent penguin, 1904.”

#the greatest caption in the history of the world

gpoy

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OCPD things

ohwhatthehellsure:

It’s really hard for me to be articulate about OCPD for some reason. Maybe it’s because I’m pretty newly diagnosed and I am still having a hard time seeing it all, like I can’t see the forest for the trees.

Lists help, so here’s a list of things I’ve noticed about myself that are very OCPD. This…

oh my god, this is me, and 1/2 of my diagnosis.

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